Valentine’s Day and its impact globally

History of Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is associated with Saint Valentine. He is considered as the symbol of love and in his memory this day is celebrated. He was imprisoned for performing marriages for soldiers. So he was kept in the prison so he could not continue his work. In passing time in the jail, he did the treatment of daughter of the jailer. During the treatment of the girl he falls in love with her. Before the day of his execution he wrote a love letter to the girl. In the end of the letter he wrote that its from your valentine. So this act of love got so J

 Influence of this day in people’s lives

This a very positive thing that such a lovely event got so popular and people start spreading love messages to each other. In the name of funny many friends make the patch up with each other that the day of love has just came so there must not be any hate in our hearts. I my opinion I personally like this day because it only spread love and remove hate. Possibly you must also be affected somewhere in life from this beautiful day. If someone is not a relationship it does not matter. It’s getting a common trend that people are giving gifts to their parents and siblings on this day.

Celebration of happiness is not dependent on materialistic stuff

Millions of people in the world celebrate Valentine’s Day in their own style. You know it is your own faith that what’s your most precious thing which you would like to give to your love. Following are some ways of celebrating Valentine’s Day with the love ones.

Ø   A poor man would like to give a long good morning kiss to his love for wishing her the day.

Ø  Person who is busy most of the time and did not give quality time to his lover. He might give full day to his sweet heart J

Ø  Some husband would like to bake a cake for their wives to wish them the beautiful day.

Ø  Many rich men give beautiful car to their sweet hearts on the special day.

So there are multiple ways of expressing the love to other person. And I wish you also have one who is waiting for the day to be with you. J

Trend in Pakistan about Valentine’s Day and its celebration

Majority of Pakistanis celebrate this day with full curiosity. Social media has changed the trend. People follow the media and they have gone much mature that they have accepted such a positive event. But still many of population is single and do not have girlfriends ;) So they give gifts and cards to their parents and siblings. Pakistani people are very energetic and they celebrate this event with full curiosity and passion. My friend you that love the solution of all problems and worries.

Fruitful results and benefits

There are bundle benefits which this beautiful day is giving to the world. I am myself a witness of many big changes I have seen from this day. I would like to share an event which I saw. My very close friend a girl and he wanted to marry her. He told his family and they talked to the family of the girl. But the family of the girl told to them that she will not do arrange marriage because she want to do love marriage and they gave her freedom to chose her life partner on her own will. So my friend made a plan to propose her on the most romantic day of the world history. He already had a formal friendship with her but never told her his feelings. So on 14 Feb 2011 he proposed her on the beautiful beach of Karachi Pakistan. She loved his gesture and accepted the proposal. It’s the power of love and the beautiful day associated with that power. It’s also a tip for you. You may apply it in your life and I hope you will also be succeeded J

Unfortunately bad aspects

The day itself is not a very bad day but for me it’s the best day of the world times. Sometimes or I should say most of the times people play with the feelings of other persona and they use Valentine’s Day for supporting it. Many business men in some countries where is no proper check on the prices of goods, people charge higher than normal price on gifts items on this day

Benefits to Businesses

Specially gift shops sale many goods on this day and earn big revenue. Red rose is said to be symbol of love so many people use it to wish their love one. Cadbury dairy milk and other chocolate brands use symbols of love on their products and the sale increase rapidly.

Personal point of view

I am loving it J According to me countries should also celebrate this event with each other. Like Pakistan and China have a very strong friendship. They should celebrate this event with each other. America can celebrate it with Israel because they always say they will stand with Israel in all circumstances. So this will more strengthen their friendship morally. The creator (GOD) helps those people who spread love each other. It’s because he the biggest admirer of Love and supports it directly. I am sure you have a great faith in the power of faith, so you are reading my views. Government should itself involve in this event and promote it on national level. Even though I believe that the prisoners should also be wished by the jailer on this event. Let’s love each other and may God Bless Saint Valentine and his soul rest in peace.  

Experiences of Life

Man learns from his experiences. There are many bitter and some positive incidents in our lives. Some people say that if you are good then you will get good experiences. How is that possible, like I am amazed on the level fiction of those people? Most of the times terrible incidents occur with the most innocent and delicate people. Sincere people are the blessing of the God. We must have any eye to recognize the honest man. Many times we face big consequences when we chose wrong people for friendship. Great people learn from their experiences and do not repeat the mistakes again. But dumb people got stung from the same people who betrayed them again and again. We should not look back in our lives and look forward all the time. It’s a bitter truth that the people who we trust the most, they break our trust. If one man has done unfair to us we should not blame all the man race and say that all men are the same. A great man once said that if a man is doing something wrong do not hate him but hate that action which he is perform and help him in getting the right path. We want a good society, everybody needs its. But what are we doing to build a just society. Have we trained our children according the rules of a good society? So every day we need to ask these sorts of calculative questions to ourselves. Change starts change starts from our own selves. Helping humanity is a very productive thinking. Many famous CEO and entrepreneurs have shared their life experiences regarding starting a new business. People are following them and making their businesses smarter. The creator gets happy on those people who helps other by any means no matter its by helping them in sharing their life experiences. If we sit with our grandparents they are always ready to share their life experiences with us because they do not want us to repeat those mistakes which they did in their lives. The most disgraceful thing which I feel is that many people do not want to listen their elders. Their point of view is that they wants to experience the world on their own and then they will decide whether its beneficial for them or not. I mean to say why these people waste their time and lives for their silly arrogance, why don’t they learn from their forefathers and history that what has helped the humanity. Our parents could be the best friends, best mentor for us. It’s because they are always our well wisher and want us to flourish our lives with success. Therefore according to me we should learn from history what are good and bad for us and keep moving for success.

Level of trust and reliability

Many things in life can heal after destruction or broken but a heart and its trust cannot be fixed again once it got broken. Apparently if the heart got fixed but the line of crack will remain there and it keeps on reminding the person who broke that heart. A man comes to the world when the mother gives him birth and he is completely pure by all means. The first person he trust in his life is his mother who give her immense care and affection. I think that’s the reason why more than 50% of people feel their mother more reliable to talk to and expect that she will understand better as compare to the father. In my point of view the strongest relation of trust in the world is the relation of mother and her child. Many religions tell to their followers that their God treats his creatures as his children. Our relation is like a chain which is interconnected. If the trust got break then the chain did not remain that much strong as it was. Level of truthfulness has a great influence on the relationships and truthfulness leads to trust. If a man is not loyal in daily small chores then one will not trust him and will not give him a big responsibility or task or he might loss his future opportunity which is would get if act as a reliable and trust worthy person. Many big names of history like Albert Einstein, William Shakespeare have focused very seriously on the matter of truth, trust and being reliable. If I talk about the gross root of bring a liar then I will start from the home. Home and its environment for the infant is the very first school of thought from where he starts his journey of learning. If the door bell rings and the boy open the door to know who’s out there and he finds out that a man came to visit his father. He takes the message of the visitor to the father that he wants to meet him and beloved father ask his son tell him that he not at home or he is asleep then what is this? Is not he teaching his own boy to lie to cheat the other person? This is how the society is being ruined and drowning to the deepest level of moral values. Some scholars says that the science is the most reliable guide in the world and yes its true but if mister man is not honest and reliable but he knows how to make money and get richer and richer then this science can be a disaster for the world, just because of that dishonest and selfish brilliant stooge. According to me an honest citizen of a country is much better than a dishonest filthy rich scientist who betrays his country and share the confidential and sensitive information with the other country just for the sake of few dollars. Countries like United States of America, Australia, Canada and many other who call their selves the temple of knowledge and millions of people around the world went there to gain knowledge, they need the focus on the moral values of the people also and it must be a fundamental part of every stage of learning for a student and one should not get his degree if do not meet the certain parameter of being honest and trustworthy. Just learning the facts and figures and just cramming the books will make a man stone head and stone heart but if the spice or flavor of honesty and trustworthiness is injected in the personalities then that person will become an asset and be more helpful to make his world more better place to live. 

Happy Face

We see many times written on subway stations, universities and many other places that please smile you are under camera recording. It’s because that we look beautiful when we smile. Our grandparent teaches us if we would like to give sometimes to their teachings and if we give some value to them which they deserve. They teach us to face problems of your lives with smiley face so this way the problems will get confuse that you do not give a damn to the tension caused by the problem and keeps working hard in productive manner. But unfortunately we have time for smoking with our friends; we have time to hang out with girls but we do not care about our grandparents to give them the care and love which they want. Wake up in the morning a beautiful smiley face, no matter how many tensions do you have. You have a final exam coming over, you are out of cash and you need to pay your college fees. No matter what the problem is, do not disappoint and keep a smiley face every time. A smile cannot solve your problems but stimulate you to fight with the situations and strive for success. Sometimes there is a deep sorrow or grief behind a smiley face. Brotherhood is getting vanish from our lives and girlfriends have taken the space of brotherhood. Joker also looks very happy nut from inside he is very sad and feels that the people are laughing upon him and nobody care about him. No one can find the real happiness in material things. But the real happiness is within the man. The feeling of helping poor, the feel of loving living beings, the feel of taking care of older people. Most of the times people call an open house lunch for everyone. Because they feel really good helping others to fill their tummy with lovely food and so we find out that the concept of real happiness is hidden in the help of others and make them comfortable. Nothing can be better than the feel of helping the people in need. And if we do not have money not a problem, we help humanity by showing them the right path for their success. Best thing about writing good material and when people read and a revolutionary positive change appears in them is that it’s a nonstop account of blessing whose benefit will come to us till our grave.

Pure Heart

Life is unpredictable and people are not taking the actions of others very seriously. As time is running out very speedily so value of each other is getting very less. People need to pause for a moment and realize what their fellows feel and aren't they getting hurt by us? Love with in a heart makes it pure. Many problems occur in life when we have double standards. We shall choose one thing for everyone else which we wish for ourselves. Real power comes from the core of heart. That’s why many scholars say that the God lives inside the heart. It has so much energy, we just need to feel it and use it to illuminate our path. People have gone so materialized and stone heart that wealth has taken over all the relations and emotions from heart. We need to ask from ourselves in the night that we have not ruin feelings of others in the day or not. And if we feel and recognize our life then we will come to know that why God is not changing our days, why our luck is not working in the umbrella of our real hard work? The answer will come from our heart and it’s the God who wants us to change our heart from dirty dusty book to a positive illuminated book in which the God will write our fortune and takes us to our destiny. There are so many inspirational books, videos to change our lives and many people are doing business in the name of successful life golden secrets. They ask the customer to purchase their book of golden rules of being a successful man. What’s the core knowledge in those books, they tells us to be positive and do not lose hope in your destiny. Many phases comes in our lives in which we feel that now our life has come to an end and again and again, but what’s the true knowledge. The reality is that our each failure leads us to one step ahead to success, if we learn from our mistakes. God has created everyone equal. One heart, two eyes, two hands and if someone has any exceptional case then we say that he is abnormal, mean to say he is not normal. And as a matter of courtesy we do not hate those people because we are thankful to the creator that he has not created us perfect and we are not a bad example for others. So if God has not made any discrimination between all the human beings so why people are dividing each other in the race of black and white? Love is inside every heart and it does not bother for any kind of discrimination.